Sunday, July 27, 2025

Adventures in Amsterdam and the 'lady with the dog'.


So here I am, back in France again after an enjoyable week home in the Netherlands. Not only did I have fun with my daughter on board Vereeniging, but I also took a trip to Amsterdam to meet up with one of my memoir author friends, Lisa Rose Wright. I have to say this definitely counts as one of this year's highlights because Lisa and I have been online friends for a few years now. We beta read each other's books (beta reading is feedback given by a few sharp-eyed and discerning readers prior to final proofeading) and share a love of rural life as well. I absolutely love Lisa's writing and can recommend her books without reserve. Here's a link to her Amazon page.

Anyway, Lisa and her husband had just completed a cruise down the Rhine from Basel, finishing at Amsterdam from where they were flying back to Galicia (Spain) where they live. It happened to be her husband's birthday, so after meeting them at the station, the three of us set off to find some celebratory coffee and a snack. The only place not overwhelmed with tourists was an entertainment centre, mainly for children, which was surprisingly quiet. Our friendly, obliging waiter admitted he was quite enjoying the tranquillity since most of their usual customers (parties of noisy children) were away on holiday. His good humour was a bonus when S, Lisa's husband, asked if he could have the 'kiddy menu'. It looked, so he claimed, the most enticing of what was on offer. Whether this was true or not, the waiter joined in the spirit of the occasion and presented him with the lunchbox full of goodies, while a colleague brought him a surprise gift: a ball. S was, of course, delighted. Being a gentleman of a certain age comes with equally certain benefits, one of which is the good-humoured indulgence of wait staff.

We spent a lovely few hours chatting about their cruise and the places they'd visited, amongst other subjects of common interest, i.e. books, authors, travel and writing. All too soon it was time for me to catch my train back to Zeeland, from where I headed back to France again two days later.


Meanwhile, Koos had been keeping the flags flying locally by attending the Bastille Day barbecue in our village. He was invited to join when he was passing the gathering on his motor scooter and cajoled into accepting refreshments hot off the grill.

Where was I? they asked. "Ah, she's left me," Koos said to a collective gasp of "Oh, non!" "But she's coming back," he said, and they all laughed. At that point, someone else asked, "Who are you talking about?" and another said, "You know, the lady with the dog!" It seems that Zoe and I are known for our daily walks, but now they even know my name. When Koos called to tell me where he was, there was a delightful crowd cry of 'Bonjour, Valerie' in the background. Isn't that a lovely way to make us feel welcome?

Each day we are here, more and more people stop to chat.  I love it that the old lady opposite is the sister of the former owner of the Crumbly Cottage, Mk 2, and her brother and another sister live just down the road next door to each other; the whole family in this one village. The brother keeps rabbits and chickens and collects grass cuttings to feed them in his pickup truck, which I'm very envious of as it's a double cab model similar to the bakkie I used to have in South Africa. He also has a big German-shepherd type dog that either sits next to him in his bakkie or sticks its nose out through a hole in his garage door as we pass. I have yet to see the whole dog!

There are other dogs in the village, but apart from Colette, whom I've mentioned before, no one else seems to walk their four-pawed friends. Admittedly, they have huge gardens, but the riot from these cooped-up canines when Zoe and I walk down the street suggests that they'd love to join us. Maybe we'll start a trend? Who knows?

On a more personal front, during my absence, the septic tank was emptied and cleaned (a big relief) and we now have proper internet in the house, so blogging will be much easier. Since I came back, we've also managed to dig up all the rusting steel sheets that were  spread across the garden – Koos has cut them into strips so we can now dispose of them – and we've also cleared years of hedge trimmings and garden dΓ©bris from the lean-to on the side of the house, with huge thanks to daughter 2, Mo, for her incredible help in completing the job.

The top of the septic tank and
the beginning of the steel sheet project

Steel sheets cut, piled up and ready for disposal

The last couple of days have been changeable weather-wise; the sun has been cast aside for some cloudy, rainy weather, so I'll finish now with a couple of pics taken down on the canal side when it was beautifully bright, shiny and warm.





Have a good week allemaal. Living the life in rural France is everything we hoped for. The only improvement would be an open canal, so keep your fingers crossed and I'll be back with more news from the Marne valley soon.








 

21 comments:

  1. Another thoroughly enjoyable catch-up Val, and what a treat to finally meet up with Lisa! Life looks good in rural France and definitely suits both of you brilliantly xx Lally

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    1. Thank you, Lally. I’m so pleased you enjoyed it. Xx

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  2. Really enjoyed this, Val, thank you for sharing your adventures with us, from another blogging lady with 2 dogs living in Spain! Just started on my blog about our Wild Atlantic Way wanderings. It'll be a while....so many pics to choose from!!

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    1. Ooh, I do wish I knew your name! Will you let me know when your blog is up? I do love reading travel blogs. 😊

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  3. Busy as usual Val but your descriptions of it tell a story of contentment. I enjoyed all the "doggy talk" in your post. I understand how people think of you as the lady with the dog. A lot of folk around Cleethorpes know Popcorn's name but not mine and usually greet him first take care, David and Popcorn from Cleethorpes

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    1. Haha, isn’t that the way if you have a friendly dog. The next step will be the people you meet calling you Popcorn’s dad. Have a lovely week, David, and thank you for your kind comment.😊

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    2. That already happens! πŸ˜€

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  4. Bonjour, Valerie! What a lovely, much travelled life you're having, lady with the dog. πŸ˜„

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    1. Bonjour and merci! I’m so pleased you enjoyed my blog. 😊

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    2. This is Aidan by the way. Google is being 'strange'. 🀷‍♂️

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    3. Aah, that explains it! I didn't twig, but then you don't normally call me Valerie either. Thank you for letting me know, anyway. :)

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  5. What a delightful read! I was thrilled that you and lovely Lisa had opportunity to meet up. S certainly had deserved indulgence on his birthday. A ball, no less!! Being the lady with the dog is a jolly fine moniker in my opinion. But better that they know your real name: it certainly sounds as though you are considered locals already.

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    1. Ah thank you, Fiona. I know my blogs are just the ramblings of my unstructured mind, but I’m always delighted to know you’ve enjoyed them. I’m very happy to be the lady with the dog, of course. My little Zoe is the apple of my eye and heart. Xxx

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  6. Your lovely blog and photos continue! Thank you. I can't imagine folks not indulging in the pleasure of walking their dogs, however! Have a good rest of the summer. We are still waiting for our summer. (Steph)

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    1. Thank you, Steph. I hope you’ve been getting some lovely days. It’s not as bright here as it was in June and early July either.

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  7. Nice, Val. I didn't realize you live on the barge year round. It does make travelling easier and more accessible, especially in these days of wine and roses.

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    1. Sadly, I don’t live on board now. For many reasons, it’s no longer possible, so I just spend as much time in board as I can.

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  8. What a wonderful blog as always, Val. Of course, I'm green with jealousy at your meet-up, but so glad you managed a get-together with Lisa and S. xx

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    1. Ah, thank you! It really was a lovely get together even if far too short! xxx

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  9. Hi Val - all I can say ... life seems to be ticking happily along - especially with a cleared garden, and a septic tank that's up and running. I hope the Canal will come back into normal life soon for you - as obviously the water and you are tied together! Excellent to read about the gatherings too - what fun ... cheers til next time - Hilary

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    1. Thank you, Hilary! I'm so pleased to see you again. Yes, we're hoping for a miracle so that we can do some faring again soon. Look after yourself and hope you're back in health before long! xxx

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